Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Open letter to Patty....

My Dear Patty,

Where do I begin?  You know I am total filmi and should be able to plug in a song or an emotion for every mood and every pal of life.  A few days ago you did post a message that whether I had best friends in Dubai.  And to which Sunil did give a reply that we were family.  Since that day I have been thinking questining myself.  Is that the way I would like to define our relationship was it that easy and was it possible to slot it by giving it a name.  Human being by nature like to simply life by categorizing everything, whether it is action, person or whatever.  Ambiguity is not something we are comfortable with or we can live with.. Classification is making our lives simple. Since you did ask the question as to what do you mean to me.. were you not my best friend or family...

The last few days in office were difficult not any reason I can point a finger at.  It was generally very disturbing or maybe too many things in my mind.  I did try to find that comfort in talking to my  pals to divert my gloom. I did miss you a lot. Not that we talk in office that often,we get so busy with our work. But you being there I feel sure that you have a solution or clarity of thought to tell me what you honestly feel  and an opinion which I can trust and believe in.  I believe you are the most positive person I have met (followed by Amit). 

I can go on and on..  So can I give a name to our friendship or being a part of a family... ? Not sure what I can say at present is just be there for us.  You mean a lot to us....

And don't take such long holidays. 

your spritual friend,


Sunil

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Spiritual friend... whats that??!!! I absolutely loved your post...

Are you just trying to make up bcoz I was angry with you last week..

I want angry... small - insignificant things do not matter...

I dont like classifying you as family... coz these are people who take you for granted and somewhere loose sight of the love they share...

I surely think you are more than a friend... someone I can shout my mind out... and someone who will tell me when I am wrong..

So - see you in the office tomorrow.. take care!!

Sunil Krishnani said...

No not really. I just took this from Sunil's message and that really got me thinking snd more so last week. The apartment thing was very trivial.